After 20+ years in student ministry, I feel like I've heard it all: stories and questions about dating, marriage, roommates, parents, friendships — you name it! Everyone is searching for healthy, intimate relationships. Everyone wants to be seen and know. Christ-followers believe that God has a plan for their flourishing, but even the devout have trouble articulating a sure-fire road map for good relationships.

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I didn't set out to write a book. I wasn't convinced that another Christian book about relationships is what we need. So I wrote a book about intimacy, identity, shame, hope, and the gospel. Knowing and Being Known is an accumulation of decades of ministry and over seven years of research. I'd love to tell you how I got here and where I hope to go ...